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Asker Anonymous Asks:
I told my boyfriend i wanted a break, sometimes i feel like hes the girl in the relationship, and im the guy. He's too sensitive, but i know he would never do anything ot hurt me. I think i'm bored with him, but i dont want to be because hes a very sweet guy.
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

Even though he’s a sweet guy, staying with him when you think you’re bored of him is just gonna hurt him more in the end. It’s always better to be open and just tell the truth about how you feel instead of trying to be nice about something :S Having a break might be good for yourself to see if life is okay without him. If you’re fine without him, then thats when you know..

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Well nothing is going right with his girlfriend he told me and is actually gonna break up with her. just he broke my heart before cause he cheated on me but i still really like him. what should i do?
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

wait you guys dated before? If he cheated on you before, he will probably cheat again once he’s comfortable and knows that you are okay with him again… and if he’s willing to break up with a girl to be with you, he’s willing to break up with you to be with another girl in the future..i wouldn’t bother dealing with him, talk to him less and focus on other things to get your mind off of him :) 

Asker Anonymous Asks:
I am so confused. Okay so I really like this guy and I have for a while now but there is a twist. I have known him since late December and we weren't dating more like a flirtation ship and my friend found out he had a girlfriend. I was devastated I have just recently started talking to him, my friend knows about everything and knows that if I talk to him I will fall for him again. She is right, I think I am falling for him.. What can I do/what do I do? Please help me
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

If he has a girlfriend, and you find yourself falling for him, I would suggest you to just talk to him less ‘cause you dont want to waste your time, or risk being a home wrecker… :/

Asker Anonymous Asks:
This isn't a message for advice, but I just wanted to say that I love how you've set up this advice blog and how you're going to make lots of people lives happier. I already follow your personal blog but it made me so happy to see that you've made this one! :) <3
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

Thank you for this message <3 :) 

My advice might not always work or be the best, but all I wanna do is to help and hopefully make someone feel a little better. Thanks for following my sunkissed-daisies one! :) :) 

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Thanks :) but, errm, where would I find one of those groups? My mum refuses to accept that there are issues :/ she just sas that every couple argues a bit... and I dunno how to tell her how much he's hurting our family because she just won't listen :(
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

Those groups would depend on where you live, you can always google abuse help groups in your location. And denying a problem is always the hardest first step to getting help. There are tons of videos on youtube that can help show your mom that abuse is way more serious than just normal arguments. Physically hitting someone like that can get them arrested which is not good so go search up some youtube videos about family abuse problems, and maybe your mom will see how serious this is. 

Asker Anonymous Asks:
So I have this one friend, we met this year & like talk everyday. I don't know if I just like our friendship or if I actually have feelings 4 him. Whenever he talks about his friendships with other girls, or girls he thinks are pretty, i get really jealous. I don't know what he thinks about our friendship, or if i even want anything else. Im also afraid of what my other friends will think.
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

If you get the feeling of jealous when other girls are mentioned, you prob do have slight feelings for him cause you want the attention from him, and not on any other girl. If you guys talk everyday, then it shouldn’t be too hard to ease into seeing what he thinks for you friendship. You can always joke around and tease a little flirtatiously and see how he responds. And why are you afraid of what your friend think? who cares! You can tell them you like him, they shouldn’t think anything bad of it

Asker Anonymous Asks:
So I think I like my best friend and I tell him everything, but I don't want to tell him this because i'm afraid he will think of me differently. I talk to him like 24/7. He isn't like someone I would normally be attracted to, but for some reason I am to him, probably just because I trust him so much and he always has been there for me when i'm upset. I don't know if I should tell him or just keep it like to myself and just stay how we are now...
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

If you guys are really close, telling him wouldn’t be so bad. Whether he likes you back or not, telling him would get something off your chest and you would be able to talk about it openly which is always better than feeling confusing and wondering how what to do. I think you should go for it and tell him. It might not end up the way you want, or it might end up good, but you’ll never know if you dont take the risk of telling him. If he doesn’t like you back, talk to him about it and work together to stay friends. Bumps in the road aren’t always bad :)

Asker Anonymous Asks:
My dad hits my mum and I hate seeing her hurt, I dunno what to do :/
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

Abuse in any kind of relationship shouldn’t be tolerated. If I were you, I’d convince her to go to one of those abuse help groups where you get some help and advice from others who have gone through the same thing. It’s not safe to be in an environment where there is abuse in the house. it’s not safe for your mom, and definitely not safe for you either. Idk the situation and when he abuses her but if does it once, he’ll do it again and you should take that as a cue to go seek professional help for your mom and yourself.

Asker Anonymous Asks:
Im in love with my best friend! He is so sweet and nice. Sometimes he is a dick. He is shorter than me but he is still so cute. We both know that we both like each other but we just want to stay friends. We make a game out of making each other jealous. I want to be his girlfriend so bad. His mom says we are going to get married but idk. I love him with all my heart and cant stand the thought of him dating some other girl. Help me. I love him
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

Its really simple, dont be afraid of ruining the friendship. GO FOR HIM!!! Dont let someone special get away. You have a chance with him so go for it :) And if you guys are true friends, even if the relationship doesn’t work out, you will always stay friends. So go for it, dont be afraid of risks or else you’ll never know what you might be missing out on :)

Asker Anonymous Asks:
hey, i was wondering if you could give any exercise tips for someone who hates running, but wants to stay fit?
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

Aerobics! Dancing! Yoga!

None of those involve running, but it still helps keep you fit!

http://www.yogajournal.com/health/1634

http://www.aerobic.org/aerobic/benefits-of-aerobics.asp

there are some great aerobic workouts that you can follow, or sign up for a class at the gym! :)

Asker Anonymous Asks:
how do i let loose with him? how do i get him to flirt with me hes verry closed off....
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

give it time, you can’t expect him to flirt with you right off the bat! first, make him feel like you guys are really close friends just by talking to him on fb or skype. Don’t try to focus on making him flirt bk wtih you becuase that might just scare him off

Asker Anonymous Asks:
he dosnent have a phone yet or anything like that the only way i tlk to him is on fb but he barely gets on, .... so how do i get comfortable with him?
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

ohhh..if he has fb ,that means he has access ot a computer right? You can download skype on computers and talk from there. Message him, chat more often, when you feel like you guys are one step closer, maybe have skype calls (thru the computer) . Don’t worry too much, let losse, have fun, don’t be cautious about every step you make with him.

Asker Anonymous Asks:
hes kinda immature and lives in a nother town , so how do i make a long distance relationship to work?
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

im in a long distance relationship myself actually! (he lives in another country). How far away is he? Text him, call him (if it charges long distance, get skype ! ) First you have to focus on becoming closer first. (which you do by talkign and hanging out) Dont worry about how to make the relationship work yet becasue you gotta get the first step done! When you guys are close enough, and feel comfortable becoming a couple, you’ll make sacrifices to make the relationship work. Distance is only a number, it doesnt affect how much somebody can love another :)

Asker Anonymous Asks:
yes, hes constantly on my mind , we dated for like a week but i ended ut, hes verry shy, so am i , and he never spoke to me or did any "boyfriend" things, i still think he has feeling for me though. should i go back out with him, if i do should i whip him into shape to be a good bf, cause he really dosne tknow how .?
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

i think you should go back to him if yo ulike him! judging all that based on one week is way too fast! people need time to adjust to being in a relationship. You need to be able to open up completely and trust eachother (and not be shy) before you start feeling like an official couple :) Just talk a lot, be really comfortable with eachother and he’ll probably get the hang of being a bf.!

Asker Anonymous Asks:
i keep thinking about this guy, ive felt like this b4 for him, then i saw him and was like nevermind, do you think i like him, ?
sunkissed-daisies-advice sunkissed-daisies-advice Said:

Do you guys talk a lot? If you dont, but he’s still constantly on your mind, you probaby do have feelings for him.